Not Your Typical Valentines Day Blog

This isn't your typical Valentines Day blog.  I'm not going to suggest you go buy flowers, chocolates or a fancy dinner out at an overpriced restaurant for your partner.  These presents are well meaning but incredibly short sighted and only meant to placate your partner in the short term. If you really love your partner, then give them a gift that shows you really care about them - give the gift of fitness.

By exercising with your partner, it shows that you want to live a long and healthy life together. You're in it for the long haul.  That you want to do exciting things together, heart pumping activities that make you happy to be together.  By staying fit, you'll both stay healthy for the long term, reducing your chances of obesity, heart disease, cancer and other debilitating illnesses that reduces the quality and longevity of both of your lives.

So find your favourite activity and go do it together as a couple. For those who don't play regular sports, it might be something as simple as going out for a night of bowling. Have you been curious about that axe throwing league? Give it a go!  Already play some team sports in college? Continue in an adult league such as soccer, ultimate frisbee or volleyball.  Up for a bigger challenge? Why not sign up for your first sprint triathlon and motivate each other to the finish line?  Or why not just go on a lovely hike together.  It doesn't have to be complicated.

Working out together will tighten your bond, give you a chance to learn even more about each other, work on communication, trust and team-work skills, oh and not to mention, realize how great your partner looks all sweaty and pumped up!

If the gym is more up your alley, I've been doing couples workouts for several years now, and they've been a big hit.  Workouts can be tailored to both persons abilities, with the stronger partner helping the weaker partner in lifts, which really helps cement the relationship in the area of reliability and trust.  Fun contests, such as the popular who can plank the longest? or who can row the fastest in 5min? inspire the couples competitive nature, especially since the loser often has to do the laundry for the next month (or other agreed upon wager of their choice).

If you love your partner, workout with them, in whatever activity you both enjoy.  It will increase your bonding time, enhance your life and ensure you both stay healthy for yourselves and your family.  Don't you want a partner with a strong back, amazing glutes and a healthy heart?  Of course you do!

Remember - the couple that sweats together stays together.  Celebrate your love and life with a fun workout today!  Don't forget to use the post workout time to nourish each others cravings.   Snack on some sweet dates, a tasty Larabar, or sliced sweet fruits like strawberries and bananas to refuel after the workout for a healthy and sensual snack.

And hey, if you are single, go workout to show how much you care about your own health and celebrate what a fantastic person you truly are.

It is OK to be uncomfortable. It is really good for you actually.

Are you sitting comfortably? Then let’s begin. 

I want to discuss comfort and discomfort, and what these concepts mean for your fitness. 

People do not like to feel uncomfortable. Most of us plan our day, our entire lives, in ways in which we can maximize our comfort, even pleasure when possible, it’s in our nature.  And as a society, we’ve gotten pretty good at it. No, I should say dangerously good at it.  Are you cold? Put on a sweater. Are you hot? Turn on the AC.  Are you hungry? Order food delivery right to your front door.  Feeling lazy? Order an uber.  Need to get to the next town over? Drive in your car.  Is your car too small? Buy a minivan.  See the pattern... You don’t have to change yourself or your bad habits because you can change your environment to suit you. 

Today, people rarely exist in a state of discomfort because we’ve gotten so good at ways of relieving our discomfort.  When a person has gotten so used to being in their comfort zone constantly they do not like leaving it. However, staying in our comfort zone too long often leads to weight gain, poor physical performance and, inevitably, health issues such as diabetes, cardiovascular disease and joint pain. 

When a trainer suddenly asks a client to change how they eat, and to exercise harder, that person must leave their comfort zone, which most people are not willing to do.  Ultimately, if a person wants to improve their health and fitness, then need to be willing leave their comfort zone - they must be OK with being uncomfortable.  

Many of my clients feel discomfort when I ask them to get up early for a workout (sleeping in your bed in much more comfortable), or when I ask them to stop eating added sugars (not giving into the cravings makes them uncomfortable), or when I ask them to lift heavy weights (the muscle soreness the next day makes them even more uncomfortable).  But its very necessary for clients to see through the short term sacrifice while their body adapts, into order to meet the long term gains in performance, health and fitness.  

When you stop eating oversized portions, and start burning your fat reserves, you will become hungry and it will be uncomfortable to you.  And most people quit healthy eating plans because they are not prepared to be hungry - which is a kind of discomfort.  You will not starve on a diet, but you will be uncomfortable until you lose the excess weight.   Are you prepared to be uncomfortable? Because that is absolutely necessary for successful weight loss. 

When you start exercising you will push your body harder than you’re used to.  Your muscles will burn with lactic acid. You will have to focus your breathing patterns. You will be tired. You will be sore.  Are you prepared to feel these discomforts? Because these are feelings you must experience in order to be make your body stronger.   

When increasing your performance you will be asked to push your body harder then you normally would.  Are you OK with leaving that safe comfortable zone and attempting that first and higher box jump?  Your mind is not completely convinced your legs will reach that new height, but you have to be brave and try, otherwise you will stay in the same place.   Do you want to stay the same, or do you want become better?

Too many people quit when they feel this discomfort.  But you have to welcome these feelings, embrace them even, as they are necessary for change. 

You may have seen various inspirational meme’s floating around the internet saying things like: “Great things never came from comfort zones” and this is very true. It takes hard work, uncomfortable work, to achieve greatness. Finding the best version of you is not going to be easy.  But if you’re willing to leave your comfort zone you can be greater than you are now.  A better, stronger, faster, fitter version of you. 

So this year, instead of quitting your new years resolutions when things get hard - when they get uncomfortable - change your mind and embrace the feeling.  Its good to be uncomfortable.  Its quite necessary actually.  

Unsure about the process? Let your personal trainer guide you and keep you safe while pushing you hard.  I highly recommend picking a personal trainer who has achieved goals similar to those you are working towards, as they will intimately know how it will feel to be working through those tough moments.  

New Years Resolutions

Oh 2018.  A brand new year is upon us.  New years day and the whole new year laying like a blank slate before us, fills us with the promise of what can be. If you can dream it, you believe it can become a reality.  

But let's be honest, looking back, how many of your new years resolutions have you actually stuck to long term?  The twenty pounds you swore you would finally lose?  The promise to take up running and stick to it at least three times a week? To train for and complete your first triathlon?  To start eating healthy by figuring out what a proper portion size actually is? To commit to a strength training plan to deal with your back pain?  All of these are achievable and realistic goals for most people, but in order to make these happen in real life you need to plan for it. 

In my career as a personal trainer, I’ve seen many resolutions fail and succeed. What made the difference in success and failure, was always the same key features: 

1. They picked realistic and meaningful goals for themselves, personally

2. They laid out a SMART plan (Specific, Measurable, Attainable, Realistic, Timely)

3. They hired a coach/trainer to help keep them accountable and on track when they began to falter 

These three acknowledgements were always present when a resolution stuck through the end of the year and beyond, to forming true long term goals.   

What are your new years resolutions? I would love to hear your hopes for the new year, but more importantly I would love to meet with you to lay out a solid plan to make your resolution a reality.  

Email me: contours.personal.training@gmail.com and lets make 2018 your best year yet!  

Find me on Instagram!!

As I announced last month, I am in the process of expanding my presence on social media.  In addition to my Facebook page, I am also now on Instagram.  

https://www.instagram.com/?hl=en

My handle is: kelly_contourspt  

I will be posting lots of great fitness inspired photos, instructional videos, as well as, keeping a photo journal of my fitness accomplishments both past and present.  If you need motivation this will be the page you should visit regularly.  So if you loved this blog, you’ll be sure love my Instagram account as well.  

Be sure to visit my page, click like on any photos you enjoyed and follow me for regular updates.  Looking forward to reaching out to even more of my fans and other fitness enthusiasts in the new year! 

Ten Tips for Surviving the Holidays

It’s that time of year again, the holiday season, chock full of office parties and family dinners.  While it is a wonderful time to see your family and friends, it is also a season full of tripwires for your healthy eating plan.  It doesn’t have to be a total chaos for your waistline though, below I have outlined a few tips and tricks for surviving the festive season. 

1. If you’re hosting, be in control of the drinks/food so you can stock healthy options, limiting the amount of junk food you put out. 

2. If you’re a guest and you’re not sure there will be a healthy option to snack on at the party, take matters into your own hands and bring one with you as a ‘gift’. Your host will appreciate the thoughtful gesture.   

3. Peer pressure is often a major reason we overeat.  We all know a ‘food pusher’ at every gathering (sorry grandma). Trick people into thinking you’re eating/drinking more by always having a full half glass/plate with you.

4. Healthier snacking options are fruits and vegetables, salsa/hummus and whole grain crackers, shrimp rings and tomato sauces.  Don’t forget candy canes are a low fat holiday favourite!

5. Stick to non-alcoholic beverages, e.g. diet cola or sparkling water with a twist, or alternate between glasses of wine and water to help reduce consumption.  

6. Most importantly, don’t go to events hungry or you’re more likely to overeat. Try eating some protein based foods to feel fuller longer, e.g. shrimp cocktails are great at parties  

7. Learn the layout of the party and avoid the section of the room near the sweets and desserts, instead go find a friend in another room and hang out there, away from temptation. 

8. Play some games at the party to keep people active and occupied. Games like charades and twister keep people engaged and moving and will make for some hilarity.  

9. Consider throwing a holiday party at a more active venue, instead of a restaurant which encourages overeating. Events like ice skating or having a party at a curling rink coupled with coffee/tea/hot chocolate are festive and fun.  

10. If you do crave sweets, its OK to have a proper portion size as a treat, but once you’ve had a serving stop there!   In the end, if you do overeat, try not to dwell on the negative feelings that go with it.  Stop the spiral and get back to the gym the next day.  Get back in control. 

Happy Holidays everybody!

Find me on Facebook!!

In an effort to reach people who use different social media platforms, I'm excited to announce that I'll be expanding my social-media presence over the new year.   First up, I just launched my own Facebook page for Contours Personal Training:
https://www.facebook.com/Contours-Personal-Training-248865928595562/ 

Be sure to visit the page, click like, and follow me for more fun fitness updates. I'll be updating with weekly fitness and nutritional training tips.  I look forward to exploring these new avenues and hopefully reaching out to even more people soon!

Thai Yoga Stretching for Flexibility

Every autumn, especially during November and December, when I have no races scheduled, and things slow down at the gym, I like to take advantage of the downtime to do some professional upgrading.  I like to take courses that will make me a more complete personal trainer, better able to offer valuable and much needed services to my clients.  

Over the past few years I’ve noticed that many of my clients are lacking in flexibility - in both segments of the population I train - those training for specific run events and those working through difficulties presented with osteoarthritis. 

People often overlook the importance of flexibility training, thinking that strength and cardio are more important in achieving their fitness goals.  But these three components of fitness are not mutually exclusive, in fact, they are quite complimentary. 

For example, a runner who wishes to gain speed needs to not only build strong leg and core muscles, but they must maintain and even enhance flexibility to reach their true speed potential.  For instance, if their hip and gluteal muscles are tight, they will not be able to reach their full stride potential, thus limiting how far they can move forward in each step.  If their competitor has more flexibility and thus a wider stride, they will cover more ground in one step then their opponent, thus beating them to the finish line. 

The injury prone runner should also consider that they are less likely to strain their hard working muscles if they are loose and pliable from proper flexibility training. Translating to less time on the bench and more time training towards your goals. 

For those suffering with osteoarthritis, flexibility training is important to help maintain range of motion (ROM) in joints that are often underused due to pain and inflammation.  Stretching those joints, especially the hip and shoulder, will help prevent loss of mobility, helping to maintain a full quality of life and confidence in everyday activities that involve lots of reaching, bending and twisting.  Things that many of us take for granted until we lose them.  

Over the last seven years, I’ve been using static and dynamic stretching techniques to help my clients to improve their flexibility.  But I wanted to do more for my clients, so I spent this past weekend attending a workshop learning technique on Thai Yoga Stretching for Flexibility.  

Daniela Goode, Co-director of Navina Thai Yoga Therapy, lead the workshop at the Can-Fit-Pro Academy.  I was fortunate to have a small class size of only 6 students, with a 3-1 student-teacher ratio, so I had lots of time with the instructors (Daniela & Debra) and hands on experience developing my stretching technique on the other five students (who were also personal trainers) in the workshop. 

This workshop focussed on stretching techniques to gain flexibility in the hip and shoulder joints, as well as several key muscle groups including: quads, hamstrings, adductors, gluteals, hip flexors, deltoids, pecs, traps and the erector spinae of the back.  

These techniques utilized body weight mechanics, accupressure and breathing techniques to facilitate deeper stretching than other standard methods (e.g. static/dynamic methods).    

Thanks to Daniela & Debra, I feel confident in using these Thai Yoga stretching techniques on my clients in the hopes of making them more confident in their motions, as well as, helping to prevent injury, promote recovery, increase mobility and release built up tension in their bodies and minds. 

Curious about these flexibility techniques? Ask me about them at our next appointment and I’d be more than happy to show you!